– We had given up the idea of adopting until we met David Avilla of Advocate for Orphans International.

“…we had given up the idea of adopting until we met David Avilla of Advocate for Orphans International.”

My husband and I had wanted to adopt for many years.  One of our previous adoption attempts took us all the way to Kazakhstan, and unfortunately we returned home empty handed.  After that experience we contacted many other adoption service providers, and we felt that we could not trust any of them.  After many unsuccessful attempts we had given up the idea of adopting until we met David Avilla of Advocate for Orphans International.

David was able to earn our trust immediately.  It is not difficult to believe in David’s intention after learning that he and his wife adopted five siblings from Russia.  David is a man of God.  That was what we kept telling each other and convinced ourselves to go through the adoption process, and we were right.  Thanks to him we are now the proud parents of a wonderful boy that we adopted in 2008.

One important feature that David’s service provides is the hosting opportunity for the prospective parents to spend time with the children at the parents’ house.  We are so glad that we went through the hosting program.  We originally hosted a different child that turned out not to be the right match for our family.  After one week we were able to host a boy with whom we had the right chemistry, and we ended up adopting him.  We are very grateful for this opportunity.  If it was not for the hosting program we would not have met the right match for our family.

The path to a successful foreign adoption is long and arduous.  The amount of paperwork and the bureaucracy at both ends is cumbersome.  There are many unknowns throughout the process, particularly in the foreign country.  It is not uncommon for the parents to get frustrated and be worn down by the process.  David had an open door policy when it came to listening to our complaints and frustrations.  He counseled us with his calm demeanor and tried to help us in many ways.  This was truly above and beyond what adoption service providers are supposed to do.  He arranged many telephone calls between the prospective parents and the foreign facilitator to get clarification on our numerous questions.  David was genuinely interested in helping us to go through the process as smoothly and painlessly as he could.

David also kept in touch with us while we were in Ukraine.   He was following our blog and was available any time that we needed him.  Some issues came up recently nearly one year after our adoption, and David helped out even though he had no obligation to do so.

In fact since our adoption we have remained in touch with him, and we send him updates about our son.  He is interested in seeing how the children develop and grow after they arrive here.  We admire David for what he does.  What a great deed to help find homes for orphans who would otherwise end up on the streets.

Although the facilitator in Ukraine may seem pretty rough at times according to our standards,  he knows his job well and he was able to get us out of the country in a short period of time.  The bureaucracy in Ukraine is unbelievable, however he navigated us through the process very smoothly.  When we were there an issue came up that he was able to resolve immediately while other families had to stay there for 5 or 6 extra weeks to resolve a similar issue.

We would definitely pick David if we decide to adopt again.  We are very glad that we used David and would recommend him to other people that are adopting.  In fact every time David brings a group of children to the US, we let our friends know of the children and his program.

A California family, January 27, 2010

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